"The reason you want every single thing that you want, is because you think you will feel really good when you get there. But, if you don’t feel really good on your way to there, you can’t get there. You have to be satisfied with what-is while you’re reaching for more."”
— Abraham Hicks
This quote really sums up the reason why every one of us want what we want and I felt prompted to share it with you.
The main goal of achieving or manifesting something is to feel amazing after we’ve received it.
But here’s the thing…..
If we don’t feel good on a self-love, worth, confidence and overall health level- we can’t keep focus on anything else.
Because when you aren’t feeling high energy and high vibration, all you want to do is feel better.
When you aren’t in wellness and when your health is all over the place, you can’t help but focus on getting that back.
The problem with this, is that when you’re so focused on healing on a mind/body/soul level, it basically halts the manifestation process.
Here’s what I mean by this:
I can remember times when I didn’t want to do anything. And I don’t just mean going out at night and have fun, I mean even go to the grocery store.
I didn’t have much energy, I wasn’t feeling well half the time because my mood was off from hormonal issues, and self-love was at an all time LOW.
When you feel this way, you can’t really listen to your intuition which is the main component when it comes to calling in what you want. AKA manifesting.
Everything is foggy, and all you can focus on is feeling better again.
And when I use the term manifesting, I don’t mean winning a million dollars or finding keys to a Lamborgini on the side of the road. I mean calling in even the more basic of things that are like winks from the Universe you’re on the right path.
But the thing is, none of these can happen when you’re focusing on your health and lack of happiness instead. Lacking self-love and feelings of low worth and overall feeling lower energy.
This is because we attract what we are, and not what we want.
Prayer, vision boards, affirmations mean nothing if you’re still complaining about other areas of your life yet doing nothing about it.
One of the things I like to do weekly are called audits. I look for misalignments in the things I am wanting vs what I am actually doing and I autocorrect it. I get super honest with myself and I start or stop doing the things that is preventing me from having that.
I don’t believe in any way that the Universe tests us. I believe that the Universe only amplifies who we are in this moment.
And if you agree with me and this statement, you can probably look back and notice that when you were feeling amazing, things just showed up for you.
So my question for you today is this…...where can you clean things up?
Where can you fully get into alignment with what it is you want?
Where can you take action to feel better on a mental, physical, emotional and spiritual level?
Where can you create more boundaries?
And what will it cost you if you do nothing?
Another game I play with myself is called, “5 Years From Now” Basically, if I am contemplating doing or not doing something, I ask my higher self where I will be 5 years from now if I don’t do it?
I urge you to also play this game with your soul and self.
Because if it’s science and there are studies backed by quantum physics, that those who manifest and energetically draw things to them are the ones who are feeling in a good state and in a high frequency, this means if you’re not feeling this way you will have a long road ahead of you in having what you want.
As you can tell, I’m not really a fan of fluff. I write/coach/speak how I would have wanted to hear things years ago, and I wasted a lot of time that I can’t get back.
There are 21 days left this month which is 3 weeks, and also enough time to completely transform parts of your mindset and vibration you didn’t even know was possible.
How amazing would it be to walk into 2019 already having a higher vibe and being magnetic? With already feeling better, healthier, happier, radiating a certain glow to yourself and now manifesting everything that you want?
I get excited thinking about this, because I too have BIG goals before January 1st. And I know that because I've invested in myself I have a high chance of getting there.
I still have 1 more spot open for 1:1 coaching this month which is my 8 week Mind, Body, Soul transformational program and I know you know that there is more inside of you wanting to express itself.
You wouldn’t have the desire if it wasn't meant for you. That isn’t my personal belief, that is truth.
And as you may have heard on the podcast, my prices for 1:1 coaching will be doubling January 1st, so if you really want to master your mindset, transform your body and instill massive amounts of self-love and confidence, make sure to reply to this email and we can chat further.
Imagine what 2019 would look like if you decided to finally say yes to yourself? How different would things be and how much more of life would you be able to truly experience?
The reason you want the health, the energy, confidence and the higher vibes is because you want to have more experiences and feel great while doing them.
And believe me when I say you ARE worthy of having everything you want, you just have to say yes to yourself and know that your future self and higher self is waiting for you <3